Visiting a Loved One in a Care Home: Making Visits Meaningful

Visits from family and friends significantly impact care home residents' wellbeing. Even when dementia affects memory, the emotional connection of visits provides comfort.

• Check visiting hours and any current restrictions
• Consider timing - avoid mealtimes unless invited to join
• Regular short visits often work better than infrequent long ones
• Let the home know if you're bringing other visitors
• Ask staff how your loved one has been before seeing them

• Bring photos to look at together
• Play favourite music or watch familiar shows
• Do simple activities - puzzles, colouring, card games
• Bring a pet if the home allows
• Go for a walk in the garden
• Read aloud from newspapers or favourite books

Some visits can be challenging - if your loved one is confused, upset, or doesn't recognise you. This is emotionally hard but remember that your presence matters even if they can't express it.

Children's visits can bring joy to residents. Keep visits short, prepare children for what to expect, and have activities ready. Intergenerational connection benefits everyone.

• Phone or video calls (staff can help set up)
• Send cards, letters, or photos
• Ask staff to share messages
• Arrange for regular activity deliveries